Auntie Janey’s Old Fashioned Agony Column # 15: Obsession With Money
Gillian Anderson is brilliant as the Lady Dedlock in the Masterpiece Theatre adaptation of one of the finest novels about money ever written: Bleak House by Charles Dickens.
Dear Auntie Janey,
When I was growing up my parents fought constantly about money. I swore that I would never let money—having or not having it—rule my life. Recently, to my horror, I realized that my boyfriend is obsessed with money. 90 percent of the time he talks about how he intends to get rich and what he’s going to buy. My boyfriend is great but I’m not sure I want someone who is easily impressed by expensive cars and designer things. Should I give him up?
Can’t Buy Me Love
Dear Can’t Buy Me Love,
Seventy-five to ninety percent of human laws pertain to property. I guess most people think of it most of the time. Even an unborn child can receive a donation. Some of the wealthy marry within their clan to keep their property within the family. From birth to death we are concerned by property issues: legitimacy of children, property regimes in marriage, mortgages, contracts of sale and succession rights. Capitalism and communism may be opposed to each other but they still boil down to one thing: property.
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