Wardrobe for a state visit to Arrakis
Yesterday at Fashion Watch at the Makati Shangri-La lobby cafe, I realized why I am friends with James Reyes.
I would wear every outfit in his show.
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Shopping for Elephants
Not literal mammoths but two rugby players, Justin Coveney and Kenny Stern. Justin wanted to go to Zara last Wednesday because it had just opened that very day in Sydney and there were long queues to get into the store. I wasn’t sure Zara at Rockwell would have anything in size Humongous, but off we went.
When it comes to shopping Justin is such a girl. “I am not a girl about shopping,” Justin says. “Ooh I like that pink shirt.”
It’s a bit tight across the neck and chest but the staff said they could move the button (Free alterations in 20 minutes!).
Auntie Janey’s Old-Fashioned Agony Column # 8: The Fashionista Boyfriend
Dear Auntie Janey,
My boyfriend is a fashionista. Do people still say ‘fashionista’? Anyway he works in media so he has to keep up with the latest trends. But lately his fashion choices have become too flamboyant and my friends have been teasing me that my boyfriend is gay. Should I tell him to tone down his dressing?
Hesitantly,
Hester
Photo from New York magazine 2008.
Dear Hester,
One of woman’s greatest conceits is the belief that she can completely change a man to suit her purposes. If she has the ability to turn lead into pure gold, she can doubtlessly thoroughly transform a man. If she doesn’t she can just dream on.
One changes when one desires to do so. It is basic in psychotherapy that true change begins when one acknowledges one’s deficiencies and actively tries to alter them.
There are occasions when we can prevail upon a person to change. People are usually at their best when there is a guest, an important event, a formal ceremony, a dress code, a code of conduct to be observed, or are trying to make an impression. These changes, however, are temporary and people always revert to their usual selves when the occasion is over.
Nagging someone about their personality quirks or way of doing things won’t help. It will only make that person defensive and resentful. When we criticize someone, we are attacking them. Attacks have never been welcome. That is why ancient cities built thick walls, turtles hide in shells and we ignore those who make us their makeover project.
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